Choose the Mood

Have you ever met someone who could receive the worst news in the world and still smile?  I've always been baffled by what seems to be an amazing talent - smiling in the face of troubles - until yesterday.  An unwanted visitor stopped by my home and delivered mind boggling news about one of my children.  As any mother might be, I was extremely displeased with the message and, though I didn't lash out at the messenger, I felt like I could choke-slam the world.

As I laughed hearty laughs with my daughter and niece laughing later the same evening I had an epiphany.  I came to understand how a smile could be the reaction to bad news.

Today's Inspiration
Though we may not always be pleased, we CAN always be Happy

Happiness is a CHOICE.  Though it is undoubtedly an emotion, we may choose to express joy regardless of our surroundings or circumstances.  Adorning our faces with sincere smile is, in some ways, showing the world that we are strong and positive; it shows our resilience and ability to cope.

Happiness is a blessing.  We all will be faced with difficulties and setbacks on our path to glory but if we remain grateful for our hear and now, happiness comes naturally.

The next time you are faced with an unpleasant situation, arm yourself with a grateful smile, deal with the obstacle in a lively manner and continue spreading cheer.  When the storm passes, you will be stronger and your smile will be brighter because of it...

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