Stars or Stones
My older daughter was once involved in a sport where bickering, gossiping and negativity were the norm for her team. Don't get me wrong, they were one of the best in the state - they could join forces against rivals and come home with first place bragging rights. Aside from the competition induced moments of unity though, my daughter rarely had more than her disheartening experiences to share when I asked "so how was your practice." She was argumentative at home and had turned into somewhat of a negative ninny. On her own volition, she traded the bickering bunch for a different group of young ladies in an altogether different sport. These young ladies are pleasant toward each other, encourage each other and keep personal opinions off the record. Not surprisingly, she comes home full of compliments about her teammates and coach. She shares stories about the encouragement she gives/receives during comp...